2025 Family Resilience in Couples with Wives Earning Higher than Husbands: Perspective of Mubadalah and Qawwamah (Study in the Urban Area of South Jakarta): Perbedaan antara revisi

	Sahaja: Journal Sharia and Humanities
Judul	Family Resilience in Couples with Wives Earning Higher than Husbands: Perspective of Mubadalah and Qawwamah (Study in the Urban Area of South Jakarta)
Penulis	Alfikrul Akbar (UIN K.H. Abdurrahman Wahid, Pekalongan); Bayu Arif Mahendra (Graduate School of UIN Syarif Hidayatullah, Jakarta); Muhammad Ali Marzuqi (Darunnajah University Jakarta, Indonesia);
Seri	Vol. 4 No. 2 (2025)
Tahun terbit	2026-03-06
ISBN	2829-9396
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Informasi Artikel Jurnal:

Sumber	:	Sahaja: Journal Sharia and Humanities
Seri	:	Vol. 4 No. 2 (2025)
Penulis	:	Alfikrul Akbar, Bayu Arif Mahendra, Muhammad Ali Marzuqi
DOI	:	https://doi.org/10.61159/sahaja.v4i2.784

Abstract

This study examines family resilience among couples in South Jakarta where wives earn higher incomes than their husbands, analyzing communication patterns and role division through the Islamic perspectives of Mubadalah (reciprocity) and Qawwamah (guardianship). Using a qualitative case study approach, data were collected through in-depth interviews, observations, and document reviews with 15 married couples in the Pesanggrahan sub-district, categorized into harmonious, conflict-prone, and divorced households. The findings reveal that family resilience is significantly influenced by open communication and equitable distribution of household responsibilities. Harmonious couples practicing Mubadalah principles demonstrated adaptability by reinterpreting roles, with husbands contributing to domestic tasks while wives served as primary earners, fostering mutual respect and emotional closeness. Conversely, households with rigid adherence to traditional gender roles experienced conflicts stemming from unclear role boundaries, emotional withdrawal, and husbands’ feelings of inadequacy, often leading to marital dissolution. The study underscores the need to reinterpret Qawwamah in a contextual light, emphasizing functional leadership grounded in emotional and spiritual support rather than solely in financial provision. It also highlights the relevance of the Islamic legal maxim taghayyur al-fatwa bi taghayyur al-zaman wa al-makan (legal rulings change with changing times and places) in accommodating contemporary socio-economic realities. The research contributes to understanding how Islamic values and modern gender dynamics intersect, offering insights for strengthening family resilience through enhanced communication, reciprocal role-sharing, and context-sensitive interpretations of religious teachings.

Keywords: Family Resilience, Family Communication, Mubadalah, Role

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-'''Abstrak'''
+'''Abstract'''
-Konsep nafkah dalam pernikahan menjadi isu yang terus diperdebatkan, terutama dalam kaitannya dengan kesetaraan gender dan peran perempuan di era modern. Undang- Undang No. 1 Tahun 1974 tentang Perkawinan menetapkan bahwa suami wajib memenuhi kebutuhan rumah tangga sesuai kemampuannya. Namun, beberapa feminis menawarkan konsep nafkah berbasis mubadalah (timbal balik) yang melibatkan kerja sama antara suami dan istri. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mengkaji konsep nafkah dalam teori mubadalah yang dikemukakan oleh [[Faqihuddin Abdul Kodir]] dan relevansinya dengan teori keadilan John Rawls. Artikel ini merupakan hasil penelitian kepustakaan (library research) dengan pendekatan kualitatif. Data yang telah terkumpul menggunakan teknik dokumentasi dinalisis dengan teknik deskriptif analisis menggunakan pola pikir deduktif. Hasil penelitian menujukkan konsep nafkah yang ditawarkan oleh Faqihuddin Abdul Kodir menawarkan konsep nafkah yang lebih adil dan proporsional dalam pembagian tanggung jawab keluarga karena berbasis [[mubadalah]] (timbal balik). Ia menekankan pentingnya memberikan ruang bagi perempuan untuk berkontribusi terhadap pendapatan keluarga, dimana nafkah tidak hanya dibebankan kepada suami saja, tetapi melibatkan kontribusi bersama secara harmonis. Oleh karena itu hadirnya peran perempuan dengan memberikan kebebasan dan kesempatan dapat melengkapi sehingga tercipta hubungan yang lebih seimbang, saling mendukung, dan memperkuat keutuhan rumah tangga, sehingga baik suami maupun istri memiliki kesempatan yang setara untuk berkembang tanpa kehilangan esensi tanggung jawab mereka dalam keluarga.
+This study examines family resilience among couples in South Jakarta where wives earn higher incomes than their husbands, analyzing communication patterns and role division through the Islamic perspectives of ''Mubadalah'' (reciprocity) and ''Qawwamah'' (guardianship). Using a qualitative case study approach, data were collected through in-depth interviews, observations, and document reviews with 15 married couples in the Pesanggrahan sub-district, categorized into harmonious, conflict-prone, and divorced households. The findings reveal that family resilience is significantly influenced by open communication and equitable distribution of household responsibilities. Harmonious couples practicing ''Mubadalah'' principles demonstrated adaptability by reinterpreting roles, with husbands contributing to domestic tasks while wives served as primary earners, fostering mutual respect and emotional closeness. Conversely, households with rigid adherence to traditional gender roles experienced conflicts stemming from unclear role boundaries, emotional withdrawal, and husbands’ feelings of inadequacy, often leading to marital dissolution. The study underscores the need to reinterpret ''Qawwamah'' in a contextual light, emphasizing functional leadership grounded in emotional and spiritual support rather than solely in financial provision. It also highlights the relevance of the Islamic legal maxim ''taghayyur al-fatwa bi taghayyur al-zaman wa al-makan'' (legal rulings change with changing times and places) in accommodating contemporary socio-economic realities. The research contributes to understanding how Islamic values and modern gender dynamics intersect, offering insights for strengthening family resilience through enhanced communication, reciprocal role-sharing, and context-sensitive interpretations of religious teachings.
-'''''Kata kunci:''' konsep nafkah, teori mubadalah Faqihuddin Abdul Kodir,'' ''teori keadilan John Rawls''
+'''''Keywords:''' Family Resilience, Family Communication, Mubadalah, Role''
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